Hey kids, check this out.
Are you all aware you're wasting your time? I've watched some funny things in my time and it's just gotten to the bare fact that people need a smack in the face once in a while. You can't go around life taking your moodswings out on people. You have to open your ears a lot of the time.
I talked to a friend of mine that's gone through shit none of you can even begin to ever compare to in your entire life's pain times 10. People just sit around amusing they've felt everyone else's feelings. You know sometimes the easiest way to be there for someone ISN'T to say "I know how you feel, I've been there" blah blah or "Mine was worse" because you aren't god and you never know what is really going on in someone's head unless you're them. You weren't put on this earth to fix other people's problems and unless they all out ask you for advice you shouldn't be trying to help them. People need to learn things on their own. You can't be like that all the time because it's just wrong. Say you give someone advice, and they don't follow it. Don't fucking get mad at them, just don't. It's their life and not yours. Worry about your own shit. You can't do that with people. You can't smother them and act like a goddamn pseudo all the time. All these 15-17 year olds walk around acting as if they know the way the world's run. They've been there and done that and hey your problems were never as bad as there's, right? Don't let people like that control you or you will do nothing but go insane.
Throughout life you'll get used, hurt, etc. Shit happens but don't let it have such a strong influence over you. Being pissed off is nothing but a waste of time. It really is. Even if you fight with someone wasting time not talking just doesn't do anything about it. Need an example? I had a friend once, Jenn as you all know her. Compare us when we were friends to now and how stupid it all is. Do you want to end up like that with anyone? It's hard and I'm sure I'm not the only one who doesn't hate that feeling of not being allowed almost to look at another person without being scared of causing an argument. Uncomfortable silences and turning of heads when another person enters the room. It's bullshit. Don't waste time with it.
I try to correct myself all the time but just because I correct myself on certain falts doesn't mean I should still make fun of those people. We all talk shit at one point. We all lie, cheat, we all fuck up so don't call yourself perfect.
Admit when you're wrong and fucking make up with eachother because losing friends sucks
This isn't aimed at anyone and I'm not being crpytic. If anything I'm just clearing my mind. That's what journals are for, aren't they? People shouldn't fear saying certain things in their journals. Journals are were the thoughts go so..yeah